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Islam has<\/a><\/strong> given freedom of choice to those who wish to get married<\/a><\/strong>. The mutual choice of spouses<\/a><\/strong> is given the highest consideration. Islam does not allow anyone to be forced into a marriage.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Do not prevent them from marrying their husbands when they agree between themselves in a lawful manner.”<\/strong>(Quran 2:232)<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Process of selecting a spouse:<\/h3>\n

The process of spouse<\/a> <\/strong>selection should be a method of a healthy balance between the freedom of choice<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0and consideration of the influence and approval of their parents<\/a><\/strong>. and freedom of choice of those who wish to get married should not rule the influence and approval of the parents.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nor should the parents<\/a><\/strong> ignore the wishes and consent of the spouses to be.<\/p>\n

After the age of teen, a male who is baligh and sane has full rights to decide about his own marriage. If a father refuses the proposal<\/a> <\/strong>of a suitable man for no valid reason, then the religious judge can override this decision.<\/p>\n

Marriage is a union<\/a><\/strong> between two people and their families.<\/a><\/strong> However, It is important for parents to understand the needs of their children. and give them the freedom to be with suitable spouses of their choice<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W) recommended:<\/p>\n

“When one of you seeks a woman in marriage<\/a>, and then if he is able to have a look at whom he wishes to marry, let him do so.”<\/strong>(Abu Dawood)<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Falling in love is<\/a> <\/strong>not a pre-condition for marriage in<\/a> <\/strong>Islam. The would-be-spouses are allowed to see or talk to each other within Islamic limits. Forced marriages are against Islam and they pose a danger to your children\u2019s future.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

“No man has the right to be in the privacy with a woman who<\/a> is not lawful for him. Satan is their third party unless there is a mahram.”<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

(Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W))<\/strong><\/p>\n

ALLAH’s most high will grant us all for whom we may wish! As ALLAH says in Quran:<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd we created you in pairs\u201d. (Quran 78:8<\/strong>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Successful marriage requires falling in love again and again with the same person. We aim to help you find your PERFECT SOULMATE: Register here for FREE \ud83d\ude42<\/a><\/b><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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