As for Muslims marriage is more than for calling as husband and wife as it is said in the Quran: Married Couple in Islam

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” [Quran: Chapter 30, Verse 21]

The main objective to be getting married is to discover peacefulness in life.

A married couple in Islam

The Couple should follow these following roles to make their life successful:

  • Love for the Sake of ALLAH

Love for the sake of Allah means that make your relationship with your spouse as Allah affection and conformity as the main root. It means that you love your spouse so much because he/she reminds you of Allah all the time and just because of his/her you are getting nearer to Allah. As a married couple in Islam, they involve themselves in appealing Allah’s will together. They worship Allah together at different times like quiet hours, praying Tahajjud prayer together, read the Quran, and do charities.

  • Be grateful to each other

For every person, the one and only important necessity that requires in every relationship are to feel appreciated and valued. It is said in the Quran:

“… If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, my punishment is severe.” [Quran: Chapter 14, Verse 7]

One of the greatest blessings from Allah is giving us those spouses who lead us towards Allah. They are a unique foundation of divine, expressive, and psychological understanding. Islamic married couples keep getting cheerier because they used to implement Allah’s command in their life. They also try to be thankful. It is said in the Quran:

“And as for your Lord’s favor, then discourse about it! (i.e., proclaim it).” [Quran: Chapter 93, Verse 11]

  • Communicate with each other

A married couple in Islam talks with each other as the greatest buddies used to do in any situation whether it is good or bad. They used to tell each and everything about their life and hear each other’s contradictory opinions. As Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and his life partners were used to doing. Hazrat Aisha (RA) narrated that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said to her:

“I know when you are pleased with me or angry with me.”

I said, “When do you know that?” He said,

“When you are pleased with me, you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Muhammad,’ but when you are angry with me, then you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Abraham.’ ” Thereupon I said, “Yes (you are right), but by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger, I leave nothing but your name.” [Bukhari]

  • Comfort zone of each other

A married couple in Islam struggles to be the comfort of each other zone. As it is said in the Quran:

“And those who say, “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”” [Quran: Chapter 25, Verse 74]

  • Make time for each other

Your life partner always wants to spend quality time with each other. So that they can better understand themselves and their relationship goes stringer day by day.

  • Fight with the real enemies

If you will ask every married couple who is happy in their life about the real enemy, they will definitely answer you that the real enemy is ego. The ego is the resistance instrument of the lower self. Allah records Hazrat Yusuf (RA) observation in the Quran:

“… Verily, the (human) self is inclined to evil, except when my Lord bestows His Mercy (upon whom He wills). Verily, my Lord is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Quran: Chapter 12, Verse 53]

The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:

“A believer is the mirror of his brother. When he sees a fault in it, he should correct it.” [Al Adab Al Mufrad]

  • Understand each other tensions

One should understand his/her spouse enough so that he/she could easily guess the tensions of other. A married couple in Islam relates to one another. Once you will figure out your spouse’s tension, automatically you make those things that will calm your spouse and also relieve his/her tension.

  • Aware of Allah in conflict

The only way in which conflicts are managed is to keep in mind that Allah is watching us. So we should not conflict with each other and try to resolve our issues with discussion. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:

“I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right… ” [Abu Dawud]

As it is said in the Quran:

“And tell My servants to say that which is best. Indeed, Satan induces [dissension] among them. Indeed Satan is ever, to mankind, a clear enemy.”[Quran: Chapter 17, Verse 53]

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